The word “women” takes up different meanings according to many especially in India.When it comes to the present scenario in India or anyother place it surely influences the dont’s of what a women shouldn’t do,more emphasis given on the women safety just because of the bad lusty world that is totally turned on to the women.
I would like to mention my own experience here.A few days ago I had a small agrument with my dad.The whole thing was about my studies,more about my future after completing my undergraduation degree.My dad wanted me to take up UPSC classes that too in chennai.My question was “why Chennai and why not Delhi?”and the reply was “it ain’t safe for women”.
Another day I took an auto from meenakshipuram to my college.Let’s say it takes 5 minutes.This was a big problem for my parents because I took the auto alone.Again the reason for this was “It ain’t safe for women”.
I love to be abroad.So I just had an idea to do my masters abroad.No sooner my mom came out with her fauvorate words “It ain’t safe for women to be alone”.
I can understand them.They are my parents.They show me their unconditional love.It is this love for me that makes them concern so much about this world.Their thoughts reveals their fear.THEY WANT ME TO FLY WITH MY WINGS IN THEIR HANDS.What am I suppose to do ?Be happy because I have got wonderful parents or regret because they make an obstacle for my dreams just because they love me.
All this is because of those cruel cold blooded men who ruin lifes of many women out there for their cheapest thoughts.Once men dominated women in the name of male chauvinism and now they are again supressing women in the name of rape and murder.
We didn’t ask you that we want to wear bikinis,we didn’t ask you that we want to drink,we didn’t ask you that we want to roam in the dark.All that we ask you is let us pursue our dreams.Just because of a few demons that are roaming out in the name of humans many women are forced to forgot their dreams by their loved ones.